The Road Ahead: Navigating Dementia's Stages

Updates on the latest dementia research and best practices, new training offerings, and information about the stages of dementia and the path forward for caregivers.

Welcome to this Saturday’s edition of The Dementia Newsletter

Hello, caregiver! I hope your weekend is off to a great start!

This week we had a lot of news about breakthroughs in the research community, and we will continue to follow the discussion of uses of AI in the care setting.

My article in “Ben’s Corner” focuses on the different stages of dementia and what you can expect at each turn in the path. You’ll learn how your loved one may change, and how you can change your care to adapt to their needs.

In this edition:

📰 This Week in Dementia News 📰 
 ➜ Top Research News
 ➜ Artificial Intelligence for Real-Life Care
 ➜ Caregiver Stories and Best Practices
Featured this Week: New online training on the most difficult conversation: 🌟 “It’s Time to Stop Driving” 🌟
• Ben’s Corner: The Road Ahead — Your Journey as a Dementia Caregiver
• More help from The Dementia Newsletter and our parent company, elumenEd
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📰 This Week in Dementia News 📰

Top Research News:

Artificial Intelligence for Real-Life Care:

Caregiver Stories and Best Practices:

This may be the most difficult conversation you ever have with your loved one. That’s because you’re not just asking for their keys: you’re asking them to hand over their sense of freedom and independence.

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When dementia is in the mix, the normal playbook for discussion and negotiation doesn’t work anymore.

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Ben’s Corner:

The Road Ahead — Your Journey as a Dementia Caregiver

Hi caregivers!

When we first hear that a loved one has dementia, many of us feel like we've been dropped into unfamiliar territory without a map. The path ahead can seem foggy and frightening. But having cared for my mom through her Alzheimer's journey, I've learned that understanding what lies ahead can make all the difference in how we navigate this challenging terrain.

The Stages of Dementia: What to Expect

Dementia isn't a single moment but a gradual journey. While everyone's experience is unique (I like to say that if you've met one person with dementia, you've met ONE person with dementia), most journeys follow a similar pattern:

Early Stage:

  • Subtle memory lapses that go beyond normal aging

  • Difficulty finding the right words in conversation

  • Challenges with planning or organizing tasks they once handled easily

  • Your loved one may be aware of these changes and feel frustrated or try to hide them

Middle Stage:

  • More noticeable memory gaps, especially about recent events

  • Confusion about time and place becomes common

  • Personality changes may emerge

  • Help with daily activities like dressing or bathing becomes necessary

  • Behavioral changes like wandering or repetitive questions increase

Late Stage:

  • Communication becomes limited, often to simple phrases or sounds

  • Full-time assistance is needed for most activities

  • Physical abilities decline, affecting walking, sitting, and eventually swallowing

  • Recognition of loved ones may come and go

How You Can Provide the Best Care at Each Stage

Early Stage Tips:

  • Focus on maintaining independence wherever possible

  • Create simple routines that provide structure without feeling restrictive

  • Use memory aids like calendars, notes, and labeled photos

  • Plan for the future together while your loved one can still participate in decisions

Middle Stage Tips:

  • Simplify communication – use short, clear sentences

  • Reduce choices to prevent overwhelm ("Would you like tea or water?" rather than "What would you like to drink?")

  • Adapt your home to prevent wandering and reduce fall risks

  • Find support for yourself – this is when caregiver burnout often begins

Late Stage Tips:

  • Focus on comfort and dignity above all else

  • Use touch, music, and familiar scents to connect when words fail

  • Pay attention to nonverbal cues that might signal pain or discomfort

  • Consider what brings peace – sometimes it's as simple as sitting together quietly

Remember This Above All

The most important thing I've learned through my own caregiving journey is that connection matters more than correction. When my mom tells me a story that couldn't possibly be true, I've learned to stop saying "That's not right." Instead, I join her reality and enjoy the moment together.

Your presence is the greatest gift you can offer. Even when your loved one seems lost in the fog of dementia, they can still feel the warmth of your love and care. That connection transcends memory loss.

And please, don't forget to care for yourself along the way. Taking breaks isn't selfish—it's necessary for the marathon ahead.

The path of caregiving isn't easy, but you're not walking it alone. There are millions of us on this journey with you, and together, we can find our way through.

What stage is your loved one in right now? What's been your biggest challenge so far? I'd love to hear from you. Just reply to this email to let me know.

When you’re ready, here’s how I can help:

Through elumenEd, the parent company of The Dementia Newsletter, I offer the following additional resources:

  • Cutting-edge training programs, free guides, and more at www.elumened.com

  • elumenEd’s online community, the-elumeNATION.com: I have a panel of experts waiting to answer your questions, a different premium course offered for free each month, chat rooms and discussions, and more for just $29/month.

  • If you want to leverage my 20+ years in the senior housing industry with a one-on-one live video consultation, you can book a 45-minute appointment with me for $100.

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At The Dementia Newsletter, we’re dementia professionals but we’re not medical doctors or lawyers. The information provided is for general informational purposes only and should not be considered as medical or legal advice. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional for medical diagnosis, treatment, or any health-related concerns and consult with a lawyer regarding any legal matters.

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