Video: I Stopped Talking to My Mom. Our Communication Has Never Been Stronger

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Ben Couch
March 30, 2025

Why did I stop talking to my mom?

No, it’s not because we were mad at each other. We get along great! But I did have to do some serious work on my listening skills as she progressed into dementia. Find out how I used silence to tackle our conversations. Check out the video below.

Since my mom’s Alzheimer’s diagnosis, I have tried to make friends with the idea of allowing silence in my conversations. I think about this a lot when I’m talking with my mom and trying to communicate through the veil that Alzheimer’s disease has…

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If you want to read a related article from last Tuesday, check out the “Ben’s Corner” section of that edition here.

Just for good measure, here’s a quote on the subject of silence from one of my favorite personalities, Muhammad Ali:

“Silence is golden when you can't think of a good answer.”

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About the author

Hi! I’m Ben, and I’m the author of this newsletter as well as a new book on Amazon: Creating Purposeful Engagement.

Caring for a loved one with dementia can feel overwhelming, especially when it comes to keeping them engaged in daily life. In my new book, Creating Purposeful Engagement, I’ll guide you through practical, reliable strategies to spark meaningful moments of connection—whether through conversation, activities, or shared experiences.

Learn how to confidently create these rewarding interactions and bring more joy to both your loved one’s life and your own. Available now on Amazon—click to get your copy today!

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I’ve been a dementia professional for over 20 years, but the fight against this disease has become much more personal for me as I am engaged in my mother’s journey with Alzheimer’s disease. I started The Dementia Newsletter as well as it’s parent company, elumenEd, to help caregivers, specifically home and family caregivers, gain access to the very best training and information available at an affordable price.

At The Dementia Newsletter, we’re dementia professionals but we’re not medical doctors or lawyers. The information provided is for general informational purposes only and should not be considered as medical or legal advice. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional for medical diagnosis, treatment, or any health-related concerns and consult with a lawyer regarding any legal matters.

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